How to Wear Cufflinks
How to Wear Cufflinks
Cufflinks are one of the most refined details in a gentleman's wardrobe — a small gesture that speaks volumes about attention to dress. This guide covers everything you need to know to wear them with ease and confidence.
French Cuffs vs. Standard (Barrel) Cuffs
The first step is choosing the right shirt.
- French cuffs (also called double cuffs) are the classic pairing for cufflinks. The cuff is twice as long as usual, folded back on itself, and fastened through four buttonholes — two on each layer. They are the traditional choice for black-tie, business formal, and special occasions.
- Convertible or barrel cuffs on certain dress shirts include a buttonhole alongside the standard button, allowing cufflinks to be worn on an everyday shirt. These offer a more relaxed, modern approach without requiring a dedicated French-cuff shirt.
If your shirt has neither a folded cuff nor a buttonhole on the cuff placket, it is not designed for cufflinks.
How to Thread a Cufflink
Follow these steps for a clean, secure fit every time.
- Align the holes. Fold the French cuff back so both layers of fabric are flush, with all four buttonholes stacked neatly.
- Insert face-out. With the decorative face of the cufflink on the outside (visible side of the cuff), push the bar or toggle through all four aligned holes.
- Secure the back. Rotate the toggle or swivel bar 90° so it lies flat against the inside of the cuff, locking the link in place.
- Adjust the fit. The cufflink should sit snugly without puckering the fabric or restricting movement at the wrist.
Tip: Fasten cufflinks before putting on your jacket — it is considerably easier with a free arm.
Cufflinks vs. a Tie Bar — When to Choose Which
Both accessories add polish, but they serve different purposes and suit different occasions.
- Choose cufflinks for formal occasions: business meetings, weddings, black-tie dinners, or any event where a suit or tuxedo is expected. They elevate the look without competing for attention.
- Choose a tie bar for smart-casual settings or when wearing a standard-cuff shirt. A tie bar keeps your tie in place and adds a horizontal detail that pairs well with a blazer or sport coat.
- Wearing both is acceptable, but keep the metals consistent — if your cufflinks are silver-tone, opt for a silver-tone tie bar. Avoid overly ornate versions of each simultaneously; let one be the focal point.
A Note on Care
Cufflinks are durable by design, but a few simple habits will keep them looking their best.
- Wipe cufflinks with a soft, dry cloth after wearing to remove oils and residue.
- Store them in a lined box or roll to prevent scratching.
- Keep them away from perfume, aftershave, and moisture, which can dull or tarnish metals over time.
- For enamel or gemstone pieces, avoid impact — these elements can chip if knocked against hard surfaces.